Love to love

I enjoy trying to love people so much. I really wish I had a greater understanding of how Jesus lives because He is One who truly Loves. Somehow, He knows exactly what we need right at any given moment (I guess being God really helps!), and is able and willing to give exactly that.
One thing I want to learn more is the different ways that people understand Love. According to Gary Chapman, there are 5 Languages by which people understand Love. The language I am most fluent in is "Quality Time", and specifically, deep conversation (take a quick read of my blogsite, and you can easily tell!). I truly enjoy getting deep into topics - I can remember several times having these intense conversations with people, and having them end with the other(s) being burnt-out, and me craving more. I am so thankful that I have more than one person in my life that appreciates getting deeper in things. They help me get stuff out, so that I don't end up overwhelming other people I love being around.
Other "languages" that I am becoming more proficient in are "Physical Touch" and "Affirmation". Actually, I quite naturally speak words of affirmation. I believe so much in the value and inner worth of all of us, that I am always trying to draw out the best in everyone; and, the best way that I've found to do that is to affirm the good things that people reveil about themselves.
"Touch" is a relatively new realization for me. I have long been a person who never really liked the physical touch of another - I wasn't in to holding hands or 'cuddling', which has been a stumbling block for former romantic relationships. However, I am now becoming to appreciate the touch of another; and, in more than just romance. Giving family members a kiss 'hello' or 'good-bye' is a lot easier, as well as hugging close friends.

It's all about getting deeper in relationships. I love the way that the Lord is opening my heart to new ways of loving or appreciating people. As Paul wrote in his first letter to the church in Corinth... Love always looks for the best, it always look to edify. There's such a great feeling that comes from helping someone realize how great they are in Christ - it doesn't matter if they believe in Him or not, He always Loves everyone, and longs to see everyone exalted in Himself.

So, I finally managed to get some time to blog. Praise God! I pray that it causes some deep thought, and enjoyment.

Blessings!